Yes, like that

What they say, how I respond (in bold), and then…always wrong. You must fix yourself“I shall reclaim what was taken!”No, not like that  You must change yourself“I will reinvent myself!”No, not like that  You must believe in yourself“I will take a leap of faith!”No, not like that You must have confidence in yourself“I feel beautiful!”No, …

I hope you dance

We were driving into Colorado on our big cross-country move in 2006 when “I Hope You Dance” came on the radio. I remember the timing of the song bringing tears to my eyes.  We were taking a leap of faith, moving away from our lives in the south. The truth is, though, we were essentially …

Of owls and crises and writing

*excerpt from work-in-progress memoir The alarm has sounded and I have turned it off. It always sounds like a good idea the night before to get up at 5 am. Nighttime Me is very ambitious compared to 5 am Me. I lay there and contemplate going back to sleep. 5:01 am Me is stronger, though, …

Shadow Work: 8 Journal Ideas to Write Your Story

The first time I sat on a counselor’s couch, I had no idea what to say. It wasn’t that I didn’t have anything but rather I had no idea where to actually begin. The same can happen with writing and journaling. Let the following prompts get you started. 1 – The start of something new. …

Speak Your Truth

A silent video today… TRIGGER WARNING Today’s Affirmation –I speak my truth. Are you looking for someone to journey with you to the next level? I’m a trauma-informed strengths coach, and I want to work with you! If you’re just joining me: I’m a survivor of complex trauma and am on my healing journey. I …